Filtering content for members and visitors

Hi me again!

Sorry, but I’m trying to get my head around what I want done.

My website in premium mode has access to a link on the menu for Exclusive Content. This is a link to a category, so that it shows a blog with just posts with Exclusive Content as the category.

What I’m finding, though, is that on my home page, in visitor mode, the post – with exclusive content as the category – is visible when I don’t want it to be.

I need a way to filter the blog on the home page that it shows everything except posts with exclusive content as the category.

I would also like to put widgets on the side that show recent posts and recent tags on the home page that does not include ones with exclusive content as the category, and then, when a member clicks on the exclusive content menu link, they will see the content with the recent posts/recent tags filtered to ONLY exclusive content category posts.

I hope that all makes sense.

Basically, I don’t want the EC posts visible to visitors on the home page, but I would like members to see them PLUS the widgets I mentioned.