navigation issues on calendar widget

Hello, I was unable to move the navigation links and month to the top of the calendar with the sidebar widget:

Also, the arrows seem reversed…right is going back in time, left is forward. I would like to change that. And when you click on the arrows, if I have no event on that month it loads a different page stating no events but I would like the calendar to still appear for the following month.

Thank you for any help you can provide!